The phase of getting into a relationship or a marriage is pretty hard lads and lassies. How it happens in movies and fairy tales is quite an easy right. You just approach the individual you like, some chit-chat and there you go, they’re already in love with you. Nah, this doesn’t happen in a matter of seconds and minutes I mean c’mon even in befriending someone, it takes the whole lot of time. Understanding the individual in front of you, collaborating your and their minds and forming the same perception is sometimes an uphill battle. So folks come outta those illusions and are realistic. Contemplating the situation is the first step in this whole scenario. I am not saying you should look here and there and then twist your head backward LOL but analyze the scenario. In case you still don’t know what I am talking about then apologies.
Actually, it’s about a woman who is quite interested in finding a partner. Now finding the right guy is a tough job and the same goes for the guys. In analyzing both sides, it’s a pretty tough job and wandering here and there wouldn’t bestow you a partner tbh. You gotta be more effort-driven. Some of us are pretty serious into this job and we search and want a partner who can be enduring and stout all their life with us. If the context is opposite to that I mean dating for fun, you don’t have to look for standards and all because you simply want a partner who can satiate you for the ongoing moment.
Now the ingredients. By ingredients, I mean the important aspects of finding your date or someone whom you want to marry. Before getting onto that, the guy sitting in front of you doesn’t really know you and it’s up to you what kind of aura you create around yourself (in case you did someone).
The ingredients necessary to define you are self-respect, self-esteem, the way you carry yourself, the boundaries which you set and the attitude you equip yourself with. Intensities can be different to these ingredients. Just like cooking something, you opt for different amounts of salt, spices and relevant ingredients. Neither too high nor too low is the key. Same is the case here with the dating/husband-search, the amount you choose for your ingredients is the key to ultimately finding the aptest partner who is totally abreast to what you imagined.