Many kinds of problems exist in a marriage. Putting more effort in your marriage as compared to your partner is a common problem. Actually giving too much in a marriage is not a bad thing. But the situation becomes worst when giving too much in your marriage hurt you and leaves you in a one-sided relationship.
Being a giving person all the time can lead you to frustration and sometimes your partner becomes unbearable for you.
Everyone has different needs and problem like giving too much arises when you think that your partner has same need as yours. To avoid such problems don’t rush into being a giving person all the time instead focus on their cues and find out what they actually need.
People often think that they can change a person by giving too much but this thing works only in rare cases. Instead of being a giving person all the time ask your partner about their needs and also tell them directly about yours.
If only a single partner is getting attention and emotional support all the time then your relation is one-sided. Be honest with yourself and make effort for yourself to enjoy equal right in your marriage.
Here are some signs which can help you to figure out that you are giving so much in your relationship. Read them carefully and judge where you stand in your marriage and how you can improve your position your marriage.
If you are a giving person in your relationship your body also feels it. Soon your body stops being tired as a giving person and you lose emotional resilience and you end up being an emotional vampire.
If someone is not interested in make efforts for their marriage. They don’t integrate their partner in their life. They don’t want you meet with the people that are important for them like their parents, friends, and family. They don’t tell you about the thing that matter to them a lot. They don’t make future plans with you.